Are you a soldier in the mommy wars?

    Sue Hutchison at the San Jose Mercury News says that while the current wisdom states that the Mommy Wars never existed, there is indeed tension between working-for-pay-moms and SAHMs. And she used the polite but definitely heated debate we SV Moms just had about nanny poaching as an example of that tension. Hutchison says that while the two sides are approaching detente, peace does not yet reign in the trenches of parenting.

    What do you think? Tell us below, and tell Hutchison here.